Dating a smoker
It rarely was an issue but if we ever got into an unrelated argument, she'd usually try to sneak it in there as a "problem," in our relationship, even though she knew she was only using it as a red herring of sorts.I always just reminded her that I was completely open about my smoking before we started dating and she knew what she was getting into beforehand, so it was never something she hung onto for very long.In fact, she actually enjoyed it when I smoked the occasional cigar from time to time and would share one with me when we were out drinking.Still, because she was no longer a smoker herself, I never confided in her about my fetish. A few of times we took some trips together and, without me ever asking or insisting or otherwise bringing it up, she always made sure to book a smoking room in the hotels we stayed in.
There was this one girl that dated a friend of mine for a couple of years. This girl didn't smoke except for a couple on the nights when she was drinking.
My friend, however, was a heavy smoker -- smoked much more than I did (or do today) -- and he lived in a "smoke friendly" house.
So she was constantly around it, but any time I was hanging around them, she never once made it an issue.
We went out to dinner, went for a walk in a nearby park, typical stuff.
I had a couple of cigarettes during that time; she never indicated it was an issue.