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A huge reason issues in relationships don’t seem to get resolved is due to the third person. When the ego gets involved it makes us resort to our selfish ways.
We speak to be heard, we listen to answer, we argue to be right, we keep tally of our partner’s shortcomings and mistakes.
You know how your best friend or your mom might be the first person you can vent to or run to for protection? If something is wrong it doesn’t matter the time of day or where they are you know how to reach them and you don’t think twice about reaching out.
You can skip the whole step of beating around the bush until they ask you what’s wrong.
It is easy to move on from issues with out resentment.
They know what your deal breakers are and they don’t violate those, and the things that come up just aren’t significant enough to taint your bond. Love isn’t the “Bachelor” a series of competition like dating to find the most suitable match.
It’s just important for us to remember that we are all human beings capable of error, love, and changing our minds.
I have always hated when people say, “When you know, you know.” What is it that you know? I have thought that I “knew” and it was based on butterflies or “signs” from the universe or the fact that it felt good at the time only to end later on.You know that you won’t agree on every single thing, and arguments typically lead you to a deeper understanding of each other.Because the goal of talking through disagreements is understanding, and you actually seem to get to that point with this person, you don’t get more frustrated with arguing, you feel resolved.Someone who can listen to you, process what you are saying, and believe in what you are saying.They won’t talk over you or make assumptions on what you want, they will ask for that clarity and listen when you give it.