Dating older men and their issues
Some possible issues include: – Dating older men *subconsciously the woman wants a father type* – Lack of trust issues *father was untrustworthy* – Promiscuity *rebelling against father that “didn’t care”* – Interest in same sex *wants nothing to do with men, because of father* Please keep in mind that these These symptoms might just be part of an individual’s makeup, and have nothing to do with their relationship with their father.
Again, everything is circumstantial and varies drastically from person to person. My father was seriously a compulsive liar, so I grew up knowing not to trust people and to always be prepared for a disappointment. However, I have difficulty in relationships with men that are genuinely nice and kindhearted, because I’m always waiting for the bomb to drop, so to speak. Another interesting thing to note is that daddy issues are not just reserved for women with absent fathers.
These are all interesting questions that reflect a real change in the way people age and date.
Or are the cultural similarities that occur between people of similar ages important enough to be deal-breakers?#6 You prefer sexual relationships to emotional ones. Every time your partner leaves, the little voice in the back of your head says “he’s not coming back,” even if he has never given you any reason to believe this. [Read: 20 ways your overanalyzing is sabotaging your relationship] #9 You tend to be jealous. That little voice in the back of your head tells you that you aren’t good enough and causes more issues.If you have strictly sex-based relationships, you don’t need to develop feelings and risk getting hurt. Your father abandoned you, and now you constantly fear it will happen again. You find yourself asking for reassurance from your partner often. If you see your partner talking to other women, you tend to get worried, even if they are just friends. I’m also guilty of this one, even though my partner has given me absolutely no reason to believe this could ever happen. Just like you can be emotionally unavailable, so can your partners.If your partner is emotionally unavailable, he might remind you of your father.We seek out what we are comfortable with, you know.