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“You have prayed for patience, and I have multiplied the opportunities in which you could be patient.” God, speaking to St. Herein lie the opportunities the Lord is providing me to exercise this beautiful fruit of the Holy Spirit - Patience.
Her advice wasn't just "eat less, exercise more." It was actually more helpful, take the next year and make a different lifestyle change every month and in a year your life will be different.I have no self-esteem issues or daddy issues or "issues" of any kind, really (except with people who use the non-word "anyways," but that's why I'm a doper, right? I've been told that I'm too intimidating (I am blunt) and that guys will automatically assume that I'm taken because I'm not ugly, but I'm not flirting either (WTF? I'm getting tired of carrying the conversation for two until the nerdy guy realizes that I'm not going to sprout a second head and relaxes enough for me to get to know him. :)You hinted towards the end that you do eventually get the nerdy guys to relax, so it sounds like you're doing fine. I'm a Nerdy Guy myself, and I should get my wife to tell you how--skittish--I was at first. "Name" language--that is, mentioning the person's name--is even better.Is there some shorthand, some signal or code phrase that I can give or say to let him know I'm not that scary, really? You may also engage in the second-favorite passtime, which is nitpicking my grammar and spelling, if you feel the need. It can't be any better than the guys you're talking about. You hinted towards the end that you do eventually get the nerdy guys to relax, so it sounds like you're doing fine. I'm a Nerdy Guy myself, and I should get my wife to tell you how--skittish--I was at first.I have no problem taking the initiative (no fear, no tact, and no shame, really), but if I try to talk to them I tend to get fear signals back: stuttering, twitching, averted eyes, etc.I'm not unattractive (according to the nice people in the recent photo thread (